When I first started thinking about estate planning, I felt overwhelmed. All the legal jargon made it sound so complicated, and I wasn’t sure what would work best for me. Do I need a will? A trust? Maybe both?
To be honest, I wasn’t alone in feeling confused. It wasn’t until I took the time to really understand the differences between a will and a trust that I started to feel confident in making decisions.
So, if you’re in the same boat, let’s break it down together, in simple terms.
What’s the Big Difference Between The Two?

A will and a trust both serve the same purpose: to decide who gets your stuff when you’re gone. But here’s the twist—a will only kicks in after your death, while a trust can start working as soon as it’s signed, even while you’re alive. It’s like having a backup plan that can kick in whenever you need it.
Why Should You Care About Probate?

Now, let’s talk about that dreaded word—probate. Sounds scary, right? Probate is the legal process that kicks in when a will is being used. And guess what? It’s public. So, everything you own and who gets what is laid out for everyone to see. On top of that, it can be a long, slow, and expensive process.
With a trust, you can skip the whole probate thing. The assets in your trust can be passed on almost immediately, and it’s private. Your family can avoid the headache of going through court, and it’s a much quicker transition.
So, do you want to go the public route, or would you prefer to keep things private and quicker? I personally love the idea of bypassing all that red tape.
Can You Handle Incapacity with a Will or Trust?

Here’s something that caught me off guard: What happens if you get sick or mentally incapacitated? A will has nothing to say about that—it only comes into play after death.
But a Living Trust has a fail-safe built in. If you can’t manage your affairs, your successor trustee can step in, take charge, and handle things without involving the court.
I realized that if I ever get into a situation where I can’t manage things, I’d rather have a trust to ensure my assets are taken care of and that the people I trust step in to help. That peace of mind is priceless.
Do You Need a Will, a Trust, or Both?
Here’s the thing: Most people need both. Yes, even though a trust is pretty awesome, a will still serves its purpose. A Pour-Over Will, for example, ensures that anything you forget to transfer to your trust during your lifetime is “poured” in after your death.
Let me explain: You could set up a Living Trust and transfer most of your assets into it, but if you forget to add a new property or bank account, that asset will still be caught by your pour-over will and moved into the trust when you pass.
So while I might have a trust set up to manage the estate planning, I still need a will to catch anything I might forget or acquire after creating the trust.
How to Set Up a Trust and a Will: A Simple Guide

If you’re ready to set up your estate plan, here’s a simple guide to follow:
Step 1: Start with the Trust
- Choose a Trustee: This is someone you trust to manage your affairs when you’re unable to. It could be a family member or a trusted professional.
- Transfer Your Assets: Make sure your assets are properly transferred into the trust. This might include your home, investments, or personal belongings.
- Set Beneficiaries: Decide who will receive the trust’s assets after your death. Be clear about who gets what and how much.
Step 2: Add a Pour-Over Will
- Draft the Will: Include any assets you missed transferring to the trust. This might include new property or other things that didn’t make it into the trust during your lifetime.
- Name Guardians: If you have children under 18, your will is where you can officially name who will take care of them.
- Appoint an Executor: This person will make sure your wishes are followed when it comes to your assets and debts.
Step 3: Finalize Your Estate Plan
Once your trust and will are set up, have everything signed and notarized to build a solid financial future. You may also want to periodically review your plan to ensure it reflects any changes in your life—like buying new property, getting married, or having children.
Common Questions
1. Do I really need a trust if I have a will?
In most cases, a trust is helpful if you want to bypass probate and keep your estate plan private. If you have significant assets or want to control the timing of how assets are distributed, a trust is the way to go. A will is still important to catch anything your trust missed, though!
2. How much does it cost to set up a trust versus a will?
Wills are typically cheaper and easier to set up, but they can come with higher costs later—mainly due to probate fees. A trust costs more upfront because of the paperwork and legal steps involved, but it saves money in the long run by avoiding probate.
3. Can a trust protect my assets from creditors?
Yes! Certain types of irrevocable trusts can shield your assets from creditors and lawsuits, which a will cannot do. If asset protection is a concern for you, this is a major advantage of having a trust.
Wrapping It Up: Trust or Will—Why Not Both?
So, after all this, you might be asking yourself: What should I do? Honestly, I think the best strategy is to set up both a will and a trust, just to cover all your bases. A trust will manage your assets during your lifetime, bypass probate, and give you more control.
But a will is still essential for things like naming guardians for your kids and catching any assets that were missed.
It’s all about peace of mind, and trust me—having both will give you just that.
Before I go, here’s my last piece of advice: Don’t wait to get this done. Start small, but start today. Once you have your estate plan in place, you can rest easy knowing everything is covered, no matter what the future holds.
